Attachers and Detachers
I’m an Attacher. I’m vocal. I’m solution obsessed. I’m passionate. I tend to stay up late at night sweating over the detail. I tend to not let things go.
At times I’m also a ‘fighter’. As opposed to a ‘flighter’. I rarely shy away from conflict. My approach to a problem is often “inside out”.
When having difficult conversations with others, I’m overly optimistic that after we voice our differences, we will go back to being friends.
Perhaps there is a spectrum we all sit on in this regard. Hard wired one way or the other.